Admit it, you’ve watched my infield footage and tried to steal my lines…
Some of them worked,
and some of them most definitely did not work.
But I’m going to guess that almost none of them worked as well for you as they did for me. Why is that?
It’s partly about game style.
It’s partly about timing.
But theres also a secret ingredient I have that most guys are missing:
That ingredient is the secret sauce of of high value pickup. I call it “aloofness”… but it’s not just that… it’s “active aloofness”. During my hotseat tour, years ago, I coined the term “hot guy blasé” which was good enough as a term to “receive the sincerest form of flattery” from some other notable pickup coaches since.
That term begins to capture its essence, but I believe when this term has been taught since, there has been a lot missing. There are so many subtle things you can do to show the girl BLATANTLY how much value you have and how much you don’t need her… but the problem is that most guys are too OBVIOUS (too blatant) about the attempt.
So the key is making that which is so SUBTLE that it seems almost accidental still be blatant on an emotional level. This is a lot of the art in my pickup.
I go a bit more in-depth here:
and for some practical applications from the inner game behind this aloofness, check out this video as well:
I also would like to mention to the die-hard fans, that we’ve opened up another Immersion program in New York. They sell out super fast, so be sure to sign up while you still can!
Wow… all this and I haven’t even gotten to my new video on my Todd Valentine channel.
For those of you who love real, practical, hard-hitting tactics, this is for you:
This video explores one of the biggest reason for flaking and LMR that intermediate guys in the game see, and what you can do to turn these tough situations into sex.
Hope you enjoyed those concepts… they are critical ones, so be sure you understand them well. They WILL make a difference in your sex life!