So WOW was this video upload ever frustrating lol.
It features clips from a Bootcamp run by Julien, Todd, and myself, where all 9 students wind up leaving with girls, which I thought would be fun to include for you in the vid.
The censoring job of all the students and girls turned out to take a looong time (I won’t even tell you how long…), and then the upload failed multiple times lol.
On the cool side though……….
And I know you’re absolutely going to take huge value from it.
In the meantime I’ve also just returned home from Atlanta where I ran a super fun program with Jeff.
We hit up my fav restaurant R. Thomas like 2X a day for nearly a week, and had a blast in the bars in Buckhead and Opera club downtown.
It was a super interesting experience, because while my students in Seattle had an issue with nearly zero social calibration, my student in Atlanta actually had TOO MUCH social calibration.
(To the point it was debilitating him. I’ve got a video shot about the experience, and am doing some serious work on creating new social calibration content to help my dudes from Seattle.)
It’s fascinating how ANYTHING in excess causes problems.
A lack of calibration, or too much calibration. Both can totally screw you up.
Anyway I want to get into today’s new video, so here’s a list of my upcoming events.
September 19, 2013: Austin
October 3, 2013: Philadelphia (with Julien)
October 17, 2013: San Diego
October 31, 2013: Phoenix
December 12, 2013: Los Angeles
December 19, 2013: New York (with Julien)
January 2, 2014: Chicago (with Julien)
January 16, 2014: Salt Lake City
January 30, 2014: San Francisco
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events — Stuart, Huey, and David — all guys in their 20’s who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
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Okay so we’re going to rock into a killer video that blasts through the super common sticking point I see in most dudes’ game…
Here’s the external manifestations of this sticking point….
-Failing to take a strong lead
-Failing to have a plan for the pull
-Seeking permission from the girl
-Allowing an emotional scatter brained club girl to dictate the rhythm
Now you’ve probably heard all these before, but I want to relate them to an OVERARCHING LIFE PRINCIPLE.
This is a principle that has been so absolutely crucial to enhancing my life, I’m incredibly psyched to share it with you today.
(It’s one that once I grasped, made improvements in my life forever and ever…)
It’s the idea that masculine energy KNOWS where it’s going.
Masculine energy does not ask PERMISSION for where it needs to go, but rather it is…
2) On it’s purpose (going where it’s going)
I also made an entire video going deep on this topic recently in Seattle, but this one particularly will reveal the importance of being on your own path and not needing other people to give you permission to do so.
Rather you need to be FIRMLY on your own path if you want to CREATE THE SPACE for OTHERS to come into your life.
Key, key, key. Massive to my day to day existence. Check this out.
CLICK THE VID TO LEARN THE SECRETS OF MASCULINE ENERGY……
I hope you enjoyed this!!
btw I noticed a few questions on Youtube about how we’re able to get right up on students AS they’re pulling, and here’s a few thoughts in case you’re interested.
First up is I’m modulating my voice so the girls’ don’t hear it.
I’m also aware of the girls’ RAS at all times, so wait for little gaps in their attention.
I’ve been teaching 12 years and can easily do this and a LOT more.
(The microphone I’m wearing also makes the audio sound a bit louder than it is.)
Anyone surprised by what I do coaching wise should see what I do GAME wise, it’s on a far more impressive level.
Again these are ARTFORMS that have taken me a great time of time and effort to master, and they’re part of what make me so passionate about the game after all these years.
I’ll try to release a video about how I do this in the future as well.
Anyway as far as the vid itself — on masculine energy knowing where it’s going — this has been such a powerful concept for me.
And coolest of all?
It’s a LIFE LESSON that I use continually, and that was viciously hammered into me because of the game.
I can’t stress how much pickup has made me the person I am today, and I wake up every day grateful for having found it.
If I go on to do great things, it will be a great deal in part to the teachings of PUA lol. 🙂 How crazy is THAT?
The lesson of knowing where you’re going to attract the right people into your life — it will be something you’ll spend your entire life mastering.
Get on it!
GO DEEPER – CLASSIC VID!!
I thought this video was a very appropriate expansion of the one you just watched, because it’s’ on the topic of how a woman’s drama in a relationship can DERAIL you as a man from your journey in life.
So again this is very much related, but just taken from the standpoint of relationships as opposed to the intiial pull.
Check it out!
You’re now ON YOUR PATH. Good man! 🙂
POST OF THE WEEK
I dug this post about how to be chill (my forte lol… okay maybe not).
It talks about how to act Jamaican basically, lol, it’s def worth a quick read!
Thanks to everyone who contributed real, solid content to the forums!
And please reward the people who do so by responding to their threads, and suffocate those who waste time by not responding!
Life is short! Value your time! Enjoy and participate in real dialogues, ignore all B.S.! 🙂
EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK
I had to include DAVID DEIDA into this week’s external resource, because he is the fucking man!!
Every PUA I know loves this guy and swears by his amazing book “The Way Of The Superior Man”.
If you haven’t read it, order it and read it literally right now.
Anyway here’s a vid from David that you should also check out…..
You’ll probably recognize a bit of the stuff above from infield footage you’ve seen from me, but I obviously have my own style that I use in STIMULUS LOADED nightclubs full of turbo stunners lol.
Also in case you struggled with it, try to “get over’ any new ageyness of the concepts. It’s ALL good.
There is never a problem with learning from weird sources, in fact I’ve found that’s where a lot of the coolest information is.
It’s irrelevant whether or not you “identify” with a teacher, who gives a shit? Just LEARN from them!
So again sorry for the late submission of this week’s article, and I’ll see you back next Wednesday!
PLEASE HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ABOUT MASCULINE ENERGY KNOWING WHERE IT’S GOING, AND WHAT YOUR EXPERIENCES ARE WITH THE STICKING POINT.
Thanks so much for checking this out, and have a super fun day!